The Pill’s Effect On Attraction

October 8, 2009 No Comments

The Daily Mail has published a story that attempts to explain how the contraceptive pill might cause women to be attracted to less masculine men and how taking the pill makes women less attractive to men.

This is a great example of how scientific research is often drastically misrepresented by the media and how the media can fuel ignorance in the general public.

The research used to support this article is weak at best.

Although the effect is subtle, Dr Alvergne said it [the pill] could alter women’s view of male attractiveness. ‘It is a possibility – but there is no evidence of this yet,’ she said. ‘We need a lot more research in this area.’ In her paper, Dr Alvergne reviewed seven studies showing how the Pill can change women’s behaviour.

Clearly the author of this article is trying to make a point based on a small amount of research and he his drawing conclusions that are not there and the researchers themselves do not adhere to.

It is true that when women ovulate and are fertile they become more sexual. Research has shown that women subconsciously act sexier and dress more provocatively to attract a mate. This article states that “during the few days each month when women are fertile – around the time of ovulation – they tend to prefer masculine features and men who are more assertive.”

It is also true that a study has shown that

on these fertile days, women are also more attracted to men who are ‘genetically dissimilar’, Dr Alvergne said. Picking a partner whose genetic make-up is unlike their own increases the chances of having a healthy child.

This is so obviously wrong it’s absurd. Marketing is what drives the media, not the pill. The example used of Zac Efron is quite obviously a result of the media using tween’s economic power in the market. Zac and his cronies are marketed to young girls who have not yet matured. To them, he is cute and funny and non-threatening. However, ask any woman over the age of 21 who she thinks is attractive and common responses include classic masculine men such as George Clooney, Robert Redford, or Sean Connery. Just have a look at the Top 10 Sexiest Men Alive according to People Magazine. The men have facial hair, muscles, power and are generally perceived as strong, aggressive, sexual, masculine men.

To call men like Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp boyish, as the author did in this article, is absurd. These men are strong, competitive, sexual, assertive, powerful men – and there’s nothing boyish about that at all. Here is an article about Brad Pitt and how incredibly masculine he really is.

And I’m sorry, but whether or not I’m on the pill or off, ovulating or not, my taste in men will not change. I may be hornier, I may go looking for sex more often, but who I’m attracted to doesn’t change.

The subtext of this article is that it is a bad thing to look “boyish” or less masculine and that being caring and sensitive is mutually exclusive of masculinity. This is not true; a man who can cook, clean, and is sensitive to my needs and feelings is very sexy indeed.

If a couple has the right chemistry then who cares what stereotype the man fits in to? All that matters is that they are happy and they have healthy children. If the woman is on the pill when they meet this will not produce an inferior child, but a wanted child, a planned for child between a happy couple making good reproductive decisions. And taking part in that type of responsibility is sexy as hell.

For a personal account of the pill’s effect on attraction, please read My Love Affair With Brad Pitt Survived The Pill.

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