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My Partner’s Impotence Is My Unintentional Celibacy

My Partner’s Impotence Is My Unintentional Celibacy

May 23, 2010 1 Comment

My partner is impotent. The medication he is on makes his penis small and tucked away, as if he is constantly cold. With the nicest attention it will peak its head out before limply pulling back. Sex is entirely out of the question. But this article is not about it. It is about me.

Vancouver’s Vanishing Women

Vancouver’s Vanishing Women

January 15, 2010 No Comments

The Lower Mainland of British Columbia, Canada – specifically Vancouver and its environs – has had far too many women go missing. Many, though not all, have been street-workers. Prostitution, compounded by addiction, is clearly a high-risk occupation, one that remains without benefit of worker’s protection plans. Too often when they’ve gone missing, police have ...

Musings of a modern woman who wants it all but finds the prospect of achieving it as daunting as pushing a pineapple through a pinhole…

Musings of a modern woman who wants it all but finds the prospect of achieving it as daunting as pushing a pineapple through a pinhole…

January 10, 2010 No Comments

It was with some awe that I, as a female child and then teenager growing up in a Western, democratic country, received news and associated gossip about women of my mother’s and grandmother’s generations who had ‘made it’. There were several after all: the thrice divorced and childless Queen’s Council; the UN Ambassador from India, ...

Not So Different After All

January 7, 2010 No Comments

Men want sex and women want commitment. Women are needy and manipulative and men are slow witted fools who stare vacantly at the TV muttering “football…boobs…” Although the media portrays us this way, this is just not true.

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Finding Amelia Through Poetry

January 5, 2010 No Comments

October’s release of Mira Nair’s Amelia came and went with all the effect of a cropduster that had forgotten its load. Yes, Hilary Swank was the perfect choice to portray the flier, looking so much like Earhart it was sometimes downright eerie. And yes, the blending of archival photos as transitions into action was a ...

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Not Your Average Wedding

Not Your Average Wedding

December 29, 2009 1 Comment

Newly engaged and already in a sweat about the BIG DAY? Is your inner bride humming Girls Just Wanna Have Fun instead of the Wedding March? Forget Weddings for Dummies and Bridal Basics 101. Consider having an out-of-town wedding, and leave traditional expectations at the airport. Look no further than the travel section of the ...

The Weekly Whims Of HatManJim: For Those Who Prefer Their Women To Be A Little Bit Two-Dimensional

The Weekly Whims Of HatManJim: For Those Who Prefer Their Women To Be A Little Bit Two-Dimensional

October 17, 2009 4 Comments

A weather-beaten eye cast over the media: HatManJim looks at a story in the headlines and as a feminist with a penis (Menimist? Femi-meni-mist? I just believe i n women’s rights, I’m not having gender-reassignment. OK?), attempts to map the sexism inherent in the press, without inadvertently saying anything lecherous about breasts.

Jenny’s Musings: My Hypothetical Non-specifically Religious Boyfriend

Jenny’s Musings: My Hypothetical Non-specifically Religious Boyfriend

September 3, 2009 No Comments

The Duggar family, famous for their religious beliefs and 18 children, have just announced on the Today Show that they are adding to their brood. My friend was obsessed with their show “18 Kids and Counting” a few months ago. She yearned for a life of such structure and tranquility: I’ve been kind of obsessed ...

All About Slimy Car Salesmen

We need a new car. Our current one is pretty old (though it works ok) but for boring administrative...

Quickie Sex Tip

Want a cheap, fun date? Stay home with a cheesy romance movie, popcorn, and a bottle of wine. You...

When Getting The Bill Doesn’t Add Up

On dates I still love a little bit of chivalry — but it goes too far when the restaurant...

Oh Harry! Getting A Piece Of The Royal Pie

There has been an upswing in royal fever on both sides of the Atlantic since last April. When Kate...

Tired Of Faking It

Dear Madame X, I know you say that it’s not good to fake your orgasms, but what if you...

Getting Committed

It is one of the oldest institutions in the world. Most humans are actively engaged in it as I...

Quote Of The Week

Nothing could be worse than the fear that one had given up too soon, and left one unexpended effort...

Lazy Sunday Awful Proposal Post

  Usually getting fired is a bad thing. But, somehow, this woman is happy about it. Can you imagine...

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