Tired of your partner not giving you what you want in bed? Speak up! There’s no one to blame but yourself because people are not mind readers as much as we sometimes wish they were. So tell them what you want and enjoy the outcome!
Having a headache shouldn’t be an excuse not to enjoy sex, it should be an excuse to have a fabulous orgasm! Orgasms have many health benefits and relieving pain, stress, and depression are just a few. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and go get it on. Trust me, you’ll feel better if you do!
Like to give blow jobs but want to make it safer? You can always use condoms, but if you don’t want to then at least make sure the guy doesn’t ejaculate in your mouth. Although you can still get STIs from this your risk will be lowered for certain infections because you will be exposed ...
Enjoy anal sex? Remember to wear a condom even if you’re in a monogamous (and previously tested negative for STIs) relationship. The bacteria in the bum can cause irritation and infections for the insertive partner.
Too many people only have sex when they are drunk after a night out on the town or a dinner date with their partner. Did you know that alcohol can both dull the experience mentally and make your body function poorly (i.e. soft erections and lack of lubrication)? Want good sex? Do it sober.
Don’t believe the myth that all men spontaneously get erections if they are turned on and that if they don’t something is wrong. As men get older most of them could benefit from a helping hand, so give him that hand job and enjoy the results!
Feeling horny but don’t have a lover around to help you scratch that itch? Masturbate! There’s no need to rationalize it or to feel guilty about it! The body was designed to give you pleasure so go have fun and let your fingers run wild.
Like to be on top during sex but feel shy about it? Try “Reverse Cowgirl” position! The man lies flat and the woman straddles him while looking at his feet. You will still get a great on top feeling but won’t have to feel so shy. Have fun!
Want to enhance your sensations? Blindfold each other and take turns teasing. You won’t know where you will be touched next or with what (hair, feathers, hands?). It will make everything that much more sensational.
Do you and your partner have to live apart? Whether it’s just one night or several months phone sex can spice up your lonely nights and bring you closer by doing something that’s a little bit taboo. Too shy to talk about what you want? Just listen to each other’s heavy breathing and cries of ...
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