February 24, 2010
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend has been playing this computer game where he has a relationship with one of the characters. It is not a side line to the game but the whole point of the game. He buys her flowers, takes her to movies and showers her with affection in the game. He is spending ...
February 17, 2010
Dear Madame X, I am bi and have a lovely girlfriend. We’ve talked a lot about my needs for sexual freedom and we decided that a menage a trois would be a good way for me to fulfill my desires for men without violating our relationship. The problem is that every time my girlfriend approaches ...
February 10, 2010
As a sexologist my friends often tell me all kinds of juicy details about their sex lives that they probably wouldn’t share with anyone else. I think this is a privilege as I love talking about sex! I want to share my knowledge with the world to help people have the best sex lives possible. Please ...
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February 3, 2010
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend REFUSES to go down on me when I have my period. He just point-blank refuses. He says it’s disgusting and he doesn’t like the smell or taste. I told him he was being sexist and that there is nothing wrong with it. We can do everything else when I have ...
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January 27, 2010
Dear Madame X, When my boyfriend and I were broken up a few months ago I found I was pregnant and had an abortion. It was terrible and I cried and cried. We are back together but I am so angry at him. He didn’t know but I am so angry for putting me in the ...
January 20, 2010
Dear Madame X, After sex my friend always showers up there, to wash the sperm out (she’s also on the pill). She says that sperm stays in your body a long time and you need to make sure it has left. I’m worried that the water pressure would just push the sperm further up inside, ...
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January 13, 2010
Dear Madame X, I have a problem with drinking and last time I blew a complete stranger (in a dirty bathroom stall). I was too drunk to be any good so the whole thing only lasted about a minute before he got limp and said don’t bother. I didn’t use protection. How bad is this? What ...
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January 6, 2010
The New Year is upon us and this is the time where everybody likes to make resolutions that they keep for about 2 weeks before they revert back to old habits. I will now give you 5 New Years resolutions that are definitely worth keeping. 1. Have good sex Of course sex is the first ...
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December 30, 2009
I want to wish all of Morning Quickie’s readers a wonderful New Year. I hope you have had a wonderful holiday season filled with joy, love, friendship, fun, mulled wine, sleigh rides, ice skating, good food, many sensual pleasures, and lots of romance and wonderful sex. Enjoy your New Year’s parties and remember to be safe ...
December 23, 2009
Dear Madame X, At the office Christmas party my friend always ends up making out with one of the other staff members. They invariably go off into the photo copy room together and she comes out with a smile on her face. I made a comment to her last week. That it’s too bad she ...