Enjoy anal sex? Remember to wear a condom even if you’re in a monogamous (and previously tested negative for STIs) relationship. The bacteria in the bum can cause irritation and infections for the insertive partner.
Dear Madame X, This is a question of etiquette. My lover has requested that I wear a butt plug all day for him. He would like this to be a normal day. However, I hold a high level position in my company which requires me to attend meetings, often several times a day. While I ...
Dear Madame X, I have been with my lover for two years and we do everything under the sun, but he has never asked me for anal sex. In the past, it has always been the man who has brought it up and doing it has always been a special treat for them. I don’t ...
Dear Madame X, I have heard a lot about how much men like a finger in their ass during sex, but I am too embarrassed to ask anyone to do this. I do it with the women I am with and they all seem to love it but they never do it to me. When ...
People often assume that vibrators are for women. They are dildo shaped, pink, have cute animal faces — why would a man want that? Well I’m here to tell you this is not true. Men can use all shapes and sizes of vibrators on all parts of their body. The shape of the toy has ...
Men, did you know that you have your own g-spot? It’s called the prostate gland and can bring you lots of pleasure. Prostate massage has also been shown to reduce the chances of cancer of that organ. You get to it through your anus, and can use fingers, penises, or sex toys to play with it.
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend wants to be a backdoor man, if you catch my drift. I’m pretty game about stuff but I’ve heard that it can increase your chances of anal leakage when you’re older. Is this true? Is there anything we can do it avoid it? If he does poke my poop shoot ...
Last week a study came out from Britain that concluded the g-spot does not exist. The French have responded to the British announcement that the g-spot does not exist by declaring the study as flawed and saying that around 60% of women do have a g-spot.
Dear Madame X, I’ve heard that men like a finger up their ass during sex, but that most are too homophobic to ask for it. How can I sneak it in without my boyfriend noticing? Keeping a Finger in It Dear Keeping a Finger in It, You are right that a lot of men (both ...
The latest film in the American Pie series, American Reunion, contains a shocking scene – male full-frontal nudity including...
Dear Madame X, I have just started seeing this girl. She seems great, but she recently told me she...
Toni Morrison’s novel Beloved arrived in my hands via a public library, when I was a broke teenager with...
My attention was drawn this week to an article about the reaction at a Canadian university to proposals to...
Airport security. Bloody nuisance. Also a conspiracy designed to subjugate women. Allow me to elaborate. Despite flying quite a...
The Cannes film festival has kicked off this week with controversy over the lack of films made by women...
Dear Madame X, I seem to be only attracted to men who are macho assholes. I like them at...
When A Clockwork Orange was published in 1962, the term sexualized violence wasn’t in use. The distinction between sexualized...
