September 3, 2010
Men, did you know that you have your own g-spot? It’s called the prostate gland and can bring you lots of pleasure. Prostate massage has also been shown to reduce the chances of cancer of that organ. You get to it through your anus, and can use fingers, penises, or sex toys to play with it.
July 14, 2010
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend wants to be a backdoor man, if you catch my drift. I’m pretty game about stuff but I’ve heard that it can increase your chances of anal leakage when you’re older. Is this true? Is there anything we can do it avoid it? If he does poke my poop shoot ...
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April 22, 2010
A lot of people say anal isn’t really sex. It’s a good alternative which preserves their virginity or keeps their numbers down. Whatever. The thing is that it still requires a condom and less than a quarter of women polled by the NYC Department of Health report used protection. The report, “Women, Unprotected Anal Sex ...
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April 7, 2010
Dear Madame X, I have recently married a lovely man. He is a very kind and caring man from a religious family, but not at all religious himself. However, he often insists on having anal sex and does not seem comfortable with vaginal sex or with me facing him during sex. I think he may ...
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January 29, 2010
Last week a study came out from Britain that concluded the g-spot does not exist. The French have responded to the British announcement that the g-spot does not exist by declaring the study as flawed and saying that around 60% of women do have a g-spot.
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December 9, 2009
Dear Madame X, My fiancée and I were both virgins when we met. She was because of religious reasons but I had just never had the opportunity. We’ve had sex quite a bit since we got engaged and it is very nice. I had gotten some advice from friends though, and it seems like we ...
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November 30, 2009
With today being World AIDS Day it seemed a good time to discuss myths and facts about HIV. In spite of over two decades of research and science there is still a lot of misinformation about HIV. Some of these will be discussed below. Myth 1: You cannot get a test for HIV until 6 ...
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October 28, 2009
Dear Madame X, I’ve heard that men like a finger up their ass during sex, but that most are too homophobic to ask for it. How can I sneak it in without my boyfriend noticing? Keeping a Finger in It Dear Keeping a Finger in It, You are right that a lot of men (both ...
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