January 27, 2012
As feminists, we get it ingrained in us that choice is every person’s (read: woman’s) right. But what if things weren’t as simple as that? Choice is a common rhetoric used by many feminists and social justice activists. The topic ranges from jobs to abortion; sexuality and contraception to marriage; how we look to what ...
Tags: abortion,
arranged marriage,
choice,
fallacy of choice,
feminism,
First World feminism,
poverty,
premarital sex,
pro-choice,
race,
teenage pregnancy,
women's rights
December 27, 2011
I always request books for Christmas. I always have. I’m not sure if that made me an easy child to buy for. Novels are certainly cheaper than a new Nintendo (which is what we called an Xbox back in my day), but how to select one for a grumpy nine-year-old? Or, for that matter, a ...
Tags: arranged marriage,
Bengali community,
book review,
Brick Lane,
Chanu,
femininity,
feminism,
Hasina,
London,
Monica Ali,
Nazneen,
Pakistan,
poverty,
racism,
South Asian,
Tuesday book club
September 13, 2011
When you think of the Middle Ages, feminism and gender equality rarely come to mind. Men are kings, knights and lords while women are silent and submissive. The setting of George R. R. Martin’s A Game of Thrones is just as sexist: whore houses abound, marriages are arranged at a startlingly young age, and rape is ...
Tags: A Game of Thrones,
arranged marriage,
empowerment,
fantasy,
feminism,
George R. R. Martin,
King,
Medieval feminism,
Middle Ages,
powerful women,
prostitution,
Queen,
rape,
sexism,
Tuesday book club
August 23, 2010
In many cultures cousins are allowed to marry. This is not necessarily a problem, but when you combine generation after generation doing this same thing, many “genetic disabilities” will result. In the UK more than half the marriages within the Pakistani community are between cousins,
November 23, 2009
Indian brides are being abandoned by their British husbands on a regular basis. These men get thousands of pounds for dowry and never see their wives again despite promising to get them a visa for the UK. Yet this is perpetuated by Indian women desperate for British citizenship and flocking to British Indian tourists in the hopes ...