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No Chemistry With My Date

No Chemistry With My Date

April 11, 2012 No Comments

Dear Madame X, I have been on a few dates with a guy I met online. He is really nice, but I am not attracted to him. Should I call it off now, or wait to see if things improve? Missing the Sparks Dear Missing, I definitely think that people should give others the benefit ...

Girlfriend Kissed Other Man: Dump Her?

Girlfriend Kissed Other Man: Dump Her?

December 21, 2011 No Comments

  Dear Madame X, My girlfriend kissed one of her colleagues at the office Christmas party. She says it was because she had been drinking, and that it will never happen again. I suspect the guy she kissed is really interested in her and was waiting for a good time to make his move. He ...

Divorce Is Depressing (For Men At Least)

Divorce Is Depressing (For Men At Least)

September 15, 2011 1 Comment

In Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert’s divorce catapults her into a journey of self-discovery. If the protagonist was a divorcĂ©, would the theme of autonomy still be so strong? A recent study says no. The story will change depending on the individual, but it seems the end result is similar — men don’t cope with ...

Love Is A Drug (Cocaine, Actually)

Love Is A Drug (Cocaine, Actually)

July 20, 2010 No Comments

We all know that breaking up is hard to do, but scientists are now saying that it is as difficult as kicking dope. Just say no to drugs? Just say no to love!

Don’t Know How To Break It Off? Hire A Splitter-Upper To Do It For You

Don’t Know How To Break It Off? Hire A Splitter-Upper To Do It For You

May 10, 2010 No Comments

Are you sick of your husband and want a divorce? Do you think your daughter is marrying the wrong man? Well if you are lucky enough to live in Japan you can hire a “splitter-upper” to do the deed for you.

Stale Sex, Cheating, And When To Move On

Stale Sex, Cheating, And When To Move On

November 18, 2009 No Comments

Dear Madame X, After three years my relationship with my boyfriend has gotten stale. The sex is hardly there and frankly terrible. We want to be together and have tried to spice it up. It usually works for a couple of weeks and then we hit our rut again. He has said that he wants ...

A Beloved Novel

Toni Morrison’s novel Beloved arrived in my hands via a public library, when I was a broke teenager with...

The University Men’s Non-Wanker Centre

My attention was drawn this week to an article about the reaction at a Canadian university to proposals to...

The Patriarchal Overlords And Your Shoes

Airport security. Bloody nuisance. Also a conspiracy designed to subjugate women. Allow me to elaborate. Despite flying quite a...

Lack Of Female Film-Makers Is Not Gender Bias

The Cannes film festival has kicked off this week with controversy over the lack of films made by women...

Why Macho Men Are Sexy

Dear Madame X, I seem to be only attracted to men who are macho assholes. I like them at...

Fifty Years Of A Clockwork Orange

When A Clockwork Orange was published in 1962, the term sexualized violence wasn’t in use. The distinction between sexualized...

Why Manly Skincare Is Better

Skincare. Not so very long ago, a man would have been mocked mercilessly for using just the word, never...

Laptop Bags: Too Big And Too Sparkly

Laptop bags; conspiracy of the patriarchal overlords. Oh yes. I am a woman with hands. The average-sized hands of...

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