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What Do Women Want? More Oral Sex

What Do Women Want? More Oral Sex

January 20, 2011 No Comments

What do women really want when it comes to sex? Men’s Health magazine has taken it upon themselves to find out by surveying over 1,400 women from 20 to 49 and the overwhelming similarity is that they want to get more oral sex — about 30% in all age groups.  It’s also clear that the ...

Oral Sex Is Not Evil, But Use Your Head

Oral Sex Is Not Evil, But Use Your Head

January 11, 2011 No Comments

Oral sex causes cancer! Oral sex is dangerous! Beware of oral sex! This is what some people are panicking about this morning after watching a show last night on the BBC called Is Oral Sex Safe? They talked about how oral sex leads to mouth cancer and how the numbers of people diagnosed are going up. They ...

In Praise Of Cunnilingus And Condoms

In Praise Of Cunnilingus And Condoms

December 2, 2010 No Comments

What’s sexier than a guy who likes to go pearl diving? Well, not much. But a pair that with a passionate practitioner of safe sex and you’re pretty close to the ideal female fantasy. Enter Raheem DeVaughn, whose song “She’s Single” begins: Take off that Gucci-this and Louis-that Break out the Magnum Gold 12-pack Then ...

Quickie Sex Tip

Quickie Sex Tip

October 15, 2010 No Comments

You can get STIs from giving oral sex to a woman. Some people like to protect themselves by using a dental dam. Make this by getting an unlubricated condom (because that stuff just tastes gross) and cutting a line up one side. Spread it out and across the vulva by pulling on either side and ...

Oral During Periods Is Fun, But What Are My Risks?

Oral During Periods Is Fun, But What Are My Risks?

April 21, 2010 No Comments

Dear Madame X, I like to down on girls when they have their period and obviously part of the fun of it is the mess. Is it possible to get HIV this way? I am a single guy at the moment so I don’t know these girls well enough to get tested with them. Red ...

Oral Sex During Menstruation

Oral Sex During Menstruation

February 3, 2010 1 Comment

Dear Madame X, My boyfriend REFUSES to go down on me when I have my period. He just point-blank refuses. He says it’s disgusting and he doesn’t like the smell or taste. I told him he was being sexist and that there is nothing wrong with it. We can do everything else when I have ...

Smell Of Pussy "Like Wine Or Cologne"

Smell Of Pussy "Like Wine Or Cologne"

October 7, 2009 No Comments

Mick // Douches are unhealthy and unnecessary, which you probably knew. What you might not have known is that some men don’t like it when you mess with your natural scent. Two men, one a “vaginal sommelier,” discuss their likes and dislikes after the jump.

A Beloved Novel

Toni Morrison’s novel Beloved arrived in my hands via a public library, when I was a broke teenager with...

The University Men’s Non-Wanker Centre

My attention was drawn this week to an article about the reaction at a Canadian university to proposals to...

The Patriarchal Overlords And Your Shoes

Airport security. Bloody nuisance. Also a conspiracy designed to subjugate women. Allow me to elaborate. Despite flying quite a...

Lack Of Female Film-Makers Is Not Gender Bias

The Cannes film festival has kicked off this week with controversy over the lack of films made by women...

Why Macho Men Are Sexy

Dear Madame X, I seem to be only attracted to men who are macho assholes. I like them at...

Fifty Years Of A Clockwork Orange

When A Clockwork Orange was published in 1962, the term sexualized violence wasn’t in use. The distinction between sexualized...

Why Manly Skincare Is Better

Skincare. Not so very long ago, a man would have been mocked mercilessly for using just the word, never...

Laptop Bags: Too Big And Too Sparkly

Laptop bags; conspiracy of the patriarchal overlords. Oh yes. I am a woman with hands. The average-sized hands of...

Mooncup Menstrual Cup