Like to give blow jobs but want to make it safer? You can always use condoms, but if you don’t want to then at least make sure the guy doesn’t ejaculate in your mouth. Although you can still get STIs from this your risk will be lowered for certain infections because you will be exposed ...
Do you worry that you might get pregnant even if he doesn’t ejaculate inside of you? Pre-cum might contain sperm, but this chance is incredibly small (especially if he has urinated since his last ejaculation) and usually it won’t happen. But, we can’t always predict it and it is a possibility, so if you are ...
Dear Madame X, When I have a really good orgasm sometimes I pee. Usually I can arrange it so no one notices but if they do most guys think it’s cool. What is wrong with me? I am a little worried about whether this means I have a medical problem that needs looking into. I ...
Dear Madame X, My lover wanted to do a money shot in my face. We’re pretty adventurous and I don’t mind much, only I’ve heard that sometimes you can do serious damage to your eye — something about the speed of the semen when it hits your face. Is it possible to get an injury ...
Dear Madame X, I have just started my first sexual relationship. I find that I come very quickly and sex often lasts less than a minute. This is very unsatisfying for me and my girlfriend. I really wish I could just relax and go for hours. I have tried thinking of math formulas or Barbara ...
Apparently the British Board of Film Classification (BBFC) thinks it is an expert on sexuality based on it’s claim that female ejaculation is the same as urination. This is NOT true! Women are able to ejaculate and it is not the same as urination. The BBFC has approved the first ever porn film with female ...
So, we’re having this baby. It’s due in a few weeks and we’re trying to get organized with all...
I recently heard about what is claimed to be the rising phenomenon of Japanese men remaining virgins for longer...
Ladders. Patriarchal conspiracy. I’ll explain… This week I climbed a ladder. I was trying to reach a loft space,...
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend needs to look at porn while we have sex. It bothers me because I...
Mrs. Dalloway is yet another feminist classic that I had to grow into. Wrapped up in Woolf’s instantly recognizable...
Last week saw a Big Thing come to our soggy little island. Well, it was a Big Thing for...
Last weekend I was entertaining a guest, you know, the sort I was planning to have lots and lots...
All little girls want to be princesses… right?! It’s bad enough that toy aisles are separated out by what...
