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Can We Retire Gendered Toys Already?

Can We Retire Gendered Toys Already?

March 30, 2012 No Comments

We all know that toy advertisements use a lot of gender stereotypes in their commercials. Girls get Barbies, clothes, makeup and rainbows. Boys get guns, war, action and loud noises. This is nothing new. But this website is new. A new site lets you “mash up” boys’ and girls’ toy commercials so that you can ...

Volleyball Players No Longer Forced Into Bikinis

Volleyball Players No Longer Forced Into Bikinis

March 28, 2012 1 Comment

Female Olympic beach volleyball players no longer have to wear the skimpy bikinis that the sport has become known for. During the 2012 London Olympics the players can choose, for the first time, to wear shorts or long-sleeved shirts. This wardrobe change may have something to do with Saudi Arabian women finally being allowed to ...

An Empowering Book About A Girl

An Empowering Book About A Girl

March 13, 2012 No Comments

Much talk of girls and girlhood on International Women’s Day 2012 inspired me to re-read the most inspirational book of my own girlhood, Roald Dahl’s Matilda. Matilda is not unusual for a Roald Dahl character — a small person who turns the tables on the big people — but she is unusual amongst girls in ...

Souvenirs Of A Joyful Solitude

Souvenirs Of A Joyful Solitude

January 19, 2012 1 Comment

Patti Smith is an artist whose rejection of traditional femininity, combined with her iconic status, has had a tangible effect on women of the arts, as well as my generation. Patti Smith’s Camera Solo, a collection of the musician’s polaroid photographs published to coincide with a US exhibition of the same collection, are about the ...

Women’s Lives In Brick Lane

Women’s Lives In Brick Lane

December 27, 2011 No Comments

I always request books for Christmas. I always have. I’m not sure if that made me an easy child to buy for. Novels are certainly cheaper than a new Nintendo (which is what we called an Xbox back in my day), but how to select one for a grumpy nine-year-old? Or, for that matter, a ...

Could Your Man Rock A Pair Of Manolos?

Could Your Man Rock A Pair Of Manolos?

October 19, 2011 No Comments

Robin Hood, David Bowie and Mick Jagger are three men who really knew how to wear tights and, although a questionable trend at first, it became kind of hot (remember Bowie’s bulging member in Labyrinth?). But if you have to stop and ponder whether you want to see men in tights outside the world of ballet, how ...

Hitler On Hormones

Hitler On Hormones

August 15, 2011 No Comments

There was nothing soft or kind about Hitler. If I could use one term to describe him it would probably be “cold-blooded killer,” but you have to wonder: would Hitler have been more in touch with his “feminine side” if he downed a bit of estrogen? Throughout the war, the Allies looked at various ways ...

Stockings, Fan Belts, And The Modern Man

Stockings, Fan Belts, And The Modern Man

June 11, 2011 No Comments

Mrs Lobster and I were in a bit of a fix the other night.  We were driving back from an afternoon in Brighton, when a few warning lights lit up on the car dashboard and some of the meters started going nuts.  Mrs L looked in the car manual that was still in its dedicated ...

I Like Girls Who Play Sports And Boys Who Dance

I Like Girls Who Play Sports And Boys Who Dance

March 8, 2011 No Comments

There’s nothing wrong with girls who play sports or boys who dance. In fact, the two aren’t really that different from each other. They both involve balance, physical conditioning, partnering or team work, discipline, perseverance, and a competitive streak in personality. Most of the time girls who play sport are not treated too badly. We ...

Girls Pass As Boys In Afghanistan

Girls Pass As Boys In Afghanistan

September 21, 2010 No Comments

In Afghanistan it is so important that families have at least one boy that they often will disguise a daughter as a son. Reasons for this include better access to education, allowing the “boy” outside the home to work or take more part in community life, and giving some kudos to the family for having ...

Labour Guilt From A Dad-To-Be

So, we’re having this baby.  It’s due in a few weeks and we’re trying to get organized with all...

The 40-Year-Old Japanese Virgin

I recently heard about what is claimed to be the rising phenomenon of Japanese men remaining virgins for longer...

The Ladder Conspiracy

Ladders. Patriarchal conspiracy. I’ll explain… This week I climbed a ladder. I was trying to reach a loft space,...

Watching Porn During Sex Is A Turn-Off!

Dear Madame X, My boyfriend needs to look at porn while we have sex. It bothers me because I...

Repressed Sexuality And Feminism

Mrs. Dalloway is yet another feminist classic that I had to grow into. Wrapped up in Woolf’s instantly recognizable...

A Jolly Good Beer Festival

Last week saw a Big Thing come to our soggy little island. Well, it was a Big Thing for...

Lingerie For The Masses

Last weekend I was entertaining a guest, you know, the sort I was planning to have lots and lots...

The Brave Kick-Ass Disney Princess

All little girls want to be princesses… right?! It’s bad enough that toy aisles are separated out by what...

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