March 30, 2012
We all know that toy advertisements use a lot of gender stereotypes in their commercials. Girls get Barbies, clothes, makeup and rainbows. Boys get guns, war, action and loud noises. This is nothing new. But this website is new. A new site lets you “mash up” boys’ and girls’ toy commercials so that you can ...
Tags: adverising,
blue,
boys,
children,
femininity,
fuming feminist,
gender,
girls,
marketing,
masculinity,
pink,
sexism,
television,
toys
March 28, 2012
Female Olympic beach volleyball players no longer have to wear the skimpy bikinis that the sport has become known for. During the 2012 London Olympics the players can choose, for the first time, to wear shorts or long-sleeved shirts. This wardrobe change may have something to do with Saudi Arabian women finally being allowed to ...
March 13, 2012
Much talk of girls and girlhood on International Women’s Day 2012 inspired me to re-read the most inspirational book of my own girlhood, Roald Dahl’s Matilda. Matilda is not unusual for a Roald Dahl character — a small person who turns the tables on the big people — but she is unusual amongst girls in ...
Tags: anger,
book review,
empowerment,
femininity,
feminism,
girls,
homophobia,
International Women's Day,
Matilda,
Roald Dahl,
stereotype,
Tuesday book club,
victim
January 19, 2012
Patti Smith is an artist whose rejection of traditional femininity, combined with her iconic status, has had a tangible effect on women of the arts, as well as my generation. Patti Smith’s Camera Solo, a collection of the musician’s polaroid photographs published to coincide with a US exhibition of the same collection, are about the ...
December 27, 2011
I always request books for Christmas. I always have. I’m not sure if that made me an easy child to buy for. Novels are certainly cheaper than a new Nintendo (which is what we called an Xbox back in my day), but how to select one for a grumpy nine-year-old? Or, for that matter, a ...
Tags: arranged marriage,
Bengali community,
book review,
Brick Lane,
Chanu,
femininity,
feminism,
Hasina,
London,
Monica Ali,
Nazneen,
Pakistan,
poverty,
racism,
South Asian,
Tuesday book club
October 19, 2011
Robin Hood, David Bowie and Mick Jagger are three men who really knew how to wear tights and, although a questionable trend at first, it became kind of hot (remember Bowie’s bulging member in Labyrinth?). But if you have to stop and ponder whether you want to see men in tights outside the world of ballet, how ...
Tags: accessory,
aesthetic,
appropriation,
boyfriend,
boyfriend blazer,
boyfriend trend,
Choo,
Christian Louboutin,
David Bowie,
fashion,
femininity,
France,
freedom,
girlfriend,
height,
high heels,
individual expression,
Manolo,
men in tights,
men's fashion,
Mick Jagger,
orgasm,
Robin Hood,
shoes,
short men in Hollywood,
status symbol,
stilettos,
trend
August 15, 2011
There was nothing soft or kind about Hitler. If I could use one term to describe him it would probably be “cold-blooded killer,” but you have to wonder: would Hitler have been more in touch with his “feminine side” if he downed a bit of estrogen? Throughout the war, the Allies looked at various ways ...
Tags: aggression,
Aileen Wuornos,
Allies,
biology,
British spies,
cold-blooded killer,
disposition,
estrogen,
feminine,
femininity,
Gandhi,
HItler,
Hitler on hormones,
Karla Homolka,
masculine,
murder,
murderous women,
Myra Hindley,
passivity,
sex,
sex hormones,
sociopath,
war,
World War II
June 11, 2011
Mrs Lobster and I were in a bit of a fix the other night. We were driving back from an afternoon in Brighton, when a few warning lights lit up on the car dashboard and some of the meters started going nuts. Mrs L looked in the car manual that was still in its dedicated ...
Tags: car insurance,
car mechanic,
car repair,
fan belt,
fashion,
femininity,
gender roles,
masculinity,
modern man,
nylons,
stockings,
stockings fix fan belt,
the why chromosome
March 8, 2011
There’s nothing wrong with girls who play sports or boys who dance. In fact, the two aren’t really that different from each other. They both involve balance, physical conditioning, partnering or team work, discipline, perseverance, and a competitive streak in personality. Most of the time girls who play sport are not treated too badly. We ...
Tags: boys who dance,
dancing,
dancing is sexy,
Dirty Dancing,
femininity,
fitness,
gender expression,
girls who play sports,
masculinity,
Patrick Swayze,
sexual orientation,
team sports
September 21, 2010
In Afghanistan it is so important that families have at least one boy that they often will disguise a daughter as a son. Reasons for this include better access to education, allowing the “boy” outside the home to work or take more part in community life, and giving some kudos to the family for having ...
Tags: Afghanistan,
desire for sons,
education,
equal rights,
equality,
femininity,
gender,
girls access to education,
girls dress as boys,
human rights,
male privilege,
masculinity,
sons,
transvestite,
value of sons,
women's rights