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Racist Family Offending My Spouse

Racist Family Offending My Spouse

May 9, 2012 No Comments

Dear Madame X, I am in an interracial marriage. Things are fine most of the time, but members of both our families occasionally let slip racist comments. What is the best way to deal with this? Offended Dear Offended, This just goes to show how much racism can be engrained in our culture that we ...

All Men Have A Scrooge Inside Them

All Men Have A Scrooge Inside Them

December 25, 2010 No Comments

Why do men always want to escape family gatherings at Christmas?  Christmas is a time for family.  Well, yes, ok.  But “family” in the real sense of “those with whom you have chosen to share your life”, rather than “those to whom one or other of you is related in a technical sense”.  One of ...

He Can Do No Wrong

He Can Do No Wrong

August 31, 2009 No Comments

A piece published in the Times yesterday explained that mother-in-laws are no longer the villains of family dynamics. Comparing their daughter’s husbands to their own spouses, women are shocked and surprised to find that the younger generation of men are willing to pull their own weight around the house. She cannot believe that the daughter ...

Labour Guilt From A Dad-To-Be

So, we’re having this baby.  It’s due in a few weeks and we’re trying to get organized with all...

The 40-Year-Old Japanese Virgin

I recently heard about what is claimed to be the rising phenomenon of Japanese men remaining virgins for longer...

The Ladder Conspiracy

Ladders. Patriarchal conspiracy. I’ll explain… This week I climbed a ladder. I was trying to reach a loft space,...

Watching Porn During Sex Is A Turn-Off!

Dear Madame X, My boyfriend needs to look at porn while we have sex. It bothers me because I...

Repressed Sexuality And Feminism

Mrs. Dalloway is yet another feminist classic that I had to grow into. Wrapped up in Woolf’s instantly recognizable...

A Jolly Good Beer Festival

Last week saw a Big Thing come to our soggy little island. Well, it was a Big Thing for...

Lingerie For The Masses

Last weekend I was entertaining a guest, you know, the sort I was planning to have lots and lots...

The Brave Kick-Ass Disney Princess

All little girls want to be princesses… right?! It’s bad enough that toy aisles are separated out by what...

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