May 2, 2012
Dear Madame X, I suspect that one of my female co-workers might have a crush on me. I think I like her but I’m not sure what to do or if it will get awkward. How do I find out for sure if she likes me? Crushing Dear Crushing, People often say, “Don’t dip your ...
April 18, 2012
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend seems to have a man-crush on one of his male friends who he really looks up to. They spend tons of time together and he gets all excited and giddy whenever he calls or texts him. Should I be worried? Could he really be in love with his friend? He ...
April 16, 2012
Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship. ~ Oscar Wilde
April 3, 2012
Online dating is for everyone — heterosexuals, homosexuals, and apparently even married folk, so it’s no surprise that there are dating companies, like Stars in the Sky, that arrange dates for the disabled. What’s more surprising is that the trials and tribulations of disabled daters are now coming straight to British living rooms. Undateables is the new series ...
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March 29, 2012
I like to give credit where it’s due and recently I found myself whooping with delight at Britain’s Got Talent. The show featured an amazing married couple who did a beautiful and romantic ballroom dance. Nothing so spectacular about that you might think! But the incredible thing about this couple is that both the people ...
March 26, 2012
So after you’ve finally settled on a venue and chosen a dress (of the appropriate colour) and made a guest list and undergone the inevitable guilt for failing to make every female friend of yours a bridesmaid (sorry again, Lacey, it’s just that I don’t like you that much), you come to the realization that ...
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St Paul,
St. Peter,
wedding planning,
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women as property,
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March 22, 2012
Step down, Twihards, it’s time for evolution via the Hunger Games revolution. Let The Games begin! I don’t want to upset any Twilight fans, but the series boils down to a drawn out love affair that is not consummated for many moons. Bella and Edward meet in the first book and don’t have sex until…wait for ...
Tags: authenticity,
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Harry Potter,
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Peeta,
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The Hunger Games,
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Twilight,
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February 27, 2012
Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires. ~Francois de La Rochefoucauld
February 15, 2012
Dear Madame X, My boyfriend and I decided not to do anything for Valentine’s Day this year. Some of my friends think that this is a sign of us not being “into” each other and that our relationship must be dying. Does not wanting to celebrate this holiday really mean that you don’t really like ...
Tags: agony aunt,
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right kind of love,
romance fizzles,
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February 14, 2012
I’m a Valentine’s Grinch. There, I said it. I don’t understand the obsession with celebrating this holiday and frankly, I refuse to. I wrote a piece on Hallowe’en and my distaste for the way it is often celebrated for the 13 – 35 crowd. Most of it stems from my lack of understanding about why ...
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