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Combatting Sexual Assault In Vancouver

Combatting Sexual Assault In Vancouver

January 23, 2012 No Comments

Last summer, the Vancouver Police Department started a campaign to try to cut the city’s growing rate of sexual assaults. Three posters with pictures of intoxicated young women were put up in bars and nightclubs around Vancouver with the slogan “Don’t Be That Guy.” The good news is that Deputy Chief Doug LePard announced that ...

Rape Statistics May Not Be So Scary After All

Rape Statistics May Not Be So Scary After All

November 23, 2011 No Comments

If you do a quick Google search of the word “rape,” you get dozens of headlines about the victims of sex crimes around the world. Most of us have no trouble saying that a great deal of these victims are women. In the Pickton inquiry alone there’s an ever-increasing list of women who are coming ...

Raping Men As A War Tactic

Raping Men As A War Tactic

March 2, 2011 No Comments

Most men who are held prisoner in concentration camps and or as political prisoners are raped and sexually abused, yet they are often ignored. An opinion piece in the New York Times by Lara Stemple looked at male rape and the problems we have because we don’t acknowledge it. The United Nations reported that out ...

I Fantasize About Raping Men — Should I Be Scared?

I Fantasize About Raping Men — Should I Be Scared?

December 8, 2010 No Comments

Dear Madame X, When I masturbate I keep fantasizing about raping men. I told my friend and she says I was probably abused in my past. I had a rough childhood but I’m pretty sure I would remember something like that. Sometimes I tell guys about it and they ask me to get rough, but ...

End Violence Against Women Today

End Violence Against Women Today

November 25, 2010 No Comments

Today is International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. This is the first of 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence. Day 16, Human Rights Day, is December 10th. So take a moment today and think about all the women who have been victims of abuse and rape and think of what you ...

How Should Rape Be Defined?

How Should Rape Be Defined?

September 15, 2010 No Comments

Rape crime statistics are released every year in the FBI annual report of crime. But there might be a problem with this, as pointed out by  Salon. The FBI definition of rape is so old-fashioned, out-dated, archaic, narrow, and stereotypical that they can’t possibly do any real reporting on it and this means hundreds, if not thousands, ...

Rape As Torture

Rape As Torture

May 5, 2010 1 Comment

Dear Madame X, I don’t understand how rape works. I’ve read reports about soldiers in Africa who are forced, at gun point, to rape women as part of their ethnic cleansing. Afterward many of them say that they didn’t want to. If they really don’t want to, how did they get it up? Also, the ...

The Dick In American Pie

The latest film in the American Pie series, American Reunion, contains a shocking scene – male full-frontal nudity including...

How Many Lovers Is Too Many?

Dear Madame X, I have just started seeing this girl. She seems great, but she recently told me she...

A Beloved Novel

Toni Morrison’s novel Beloved arrived in my hands via a public library, when I was a broke teenager with...

The University Men’s Non-Wanker Centre

My attention was drawn this week to an article about the reaction at a Canadian university to proposals to...

The Patriarchal Overlords And Your Shoes

Airport security. Bloody nuisance. Also a conspiracy designed to subjugate women. Allow me to elaborate. Despite flying quite a...

Lack Of Female Film-Makers Is Not Gender Bias

The Cannes film festival has kicked off this week with controversy over the lack of films made by women...

Why Macho Men Are Sexy

Dear Madame X, I seem to be only attracted to men who are macho assholes. I like them at...

Fifty Years Of A Clockwork Orange

When A Clockwork Orange was published in 1962, the term sexualized violence wasn’t in use. The distinction between sexualized...

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