Men, want to last longer in bed? Take some of the focus away from your penis and on to other just as sensitive parts or onto your partner. This will give you more time before the big finale and more of a total body sex experience.
Are you having trouble getting your female partner to orgasm? Instead of fiddling for ages with no results, ask her to show you how she masturbates. Not only is it sexy to watch, but you will learn how to get her off more easily by copying her movements.
The biggest sex survey since Kinsey was just released and it looks like women still aren’t orgasming as much as their partners think they are. Only 64% of women reported orgasm at last sex, but 85% of men thought their partners orgasmed at last sex. What is going on here? Women need to stop faking ...
Dear Madame X, When I have a really good orgasm sometimes I pee. Usually I can arrange it so no one notices but if they do most guys think it’s cool. What is wrong with me? I am a little worried about whether this means I have a medical problem that needs looking into. I ...
Don’t fake your orgasms! That just teaches your partner to continue doing something that obviously doesn’t work for you. Instead, show them what you want and teach them what works. That way you are guaranteed better sex (and if not, there’s no one to blame but yourself).
Dear Madame X, I have just started my first sexual relationship. I find that I come very quickly and sex often lasts less than a minute. This is very unsatisfying for me and my girlfriend. I really wish I could just relax and go for hours. I have tried thinking of math formulas or Barbara ...
Oh scientists, so much brain power and so little common sense! A new study purports to show that those earth-shattering noises a woman makes during sex are designed to manipulate men. That’s right, sex for women is not about pleasure, but about control. Now where have I heard that before? A study of 71 heterosexual ...
May has been Masturbation Month since 1995. I am now going to list a few of the wonderful things you can get out of masturbation and why I think everyone should celebrate this holiday with vigour! 1. Learn what turns you on You and only you are the expert about your body and what turns you on. If you ...
Dear Madame X, I am a man who fakes orgasms. Lately I have found it very difficult to come with my wife. I get hard enough to get inside of her, but then it just dies. I have to pretend I’ve orgasmed because otherwise it would be devastating for her. At first it was only ...
Female viagra will turn all women into sex robots. As companies race to find the magic formula to make her sigh turn into a scream, critics are worried that women will be forced to take the pill to fulfill their husbands sexual desires.
John Burnside’s novel A Summer of Drowning takes us into the mind of Liv, a woman remembering the strange,...
Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship. ~...
Are you a couple? Aren’t you? Maybe it’s just complicated. Thanks to xkcd.
This week I had a meltdown. In its wake, the remains of a Very Nice and Thoughtful Man who...
If you are breastfeeding your child, they are less than six months old, they only eat breastmilk (no other...
A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away… Actually, some time in the 1980s in a flat...
Dear Madame X, I have been on a few dates with a guy I met online. He is really...
Achmat Dangor’s novel Bitter Fruit begins in post-apartheid South Africa, when Silas spots the police lieutenant who raped Lydia...
