Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It’s an appropriate metaphor to how immense the differences are between men and women. The woman psyche remains and will always be a mystery to men. It’s like a puzzle of a thousand pieces that you’ll come close to solving but you’ll actually never will because that how women are, a never ending complicated puzzle.
Fortunately, decades of research, studies and a multitude of books give you a set of clues to know what women really want from the guys they meet. This is not to say that the mystery has been solved, but this is a step on the right direction. Below are some of the things that turn them on…
What Women Want From The Guys They Meet
- “A Dollop of Humor.” If men enjoy a good dose of fun, humor and laughter from time to time, so do women. In fact, studies have shown and experts back it up, that one of the most common traits women look for is a good sense of humor. You don’t have to be the funniest guy, but you should at least posses the ability to make her laugh. Humor is also oftentimes synonymous with a certain degree of intelligence, and who wouldn’t want a witty man by her side? If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, the way to hers is through a dollop of fun, adventure and pleasure. The thing is, if you can make a woman laugh, you’re almost always half way to winning her over.
- “Confident Masculinity.” Now that you’ve taken care of the fun part with your sense of humor, it’s time to man up and show your girl that you are dependable and someone she can rely on when the going gets tough. A number of surveys has concluded that confident, noble and genuine masculinity is what most women desperately wants from men they date. It’s not just being manly on the outside but also on the inside, which means you should be able to romance her when necessary while still exuding strength.
- “Undivided Attention“. More than anything, undivided is what women crave for from their other half. They adore and love a man who can keep his eyes only to her. Regardless of the length of the relationship, you should be able to make her feel that she’s the only apple for your eyes and always go the extra mile. Simply put, be a gentleman at all times. Don’t stop opening doors, pulling chairs or carrying her stuffs just because you hit the 1 year anniversary mark.
- “A Sense of Security.” When meeting new guys or getting into a relationship, women want someone whom they can feel safe with. Not that you should be filthy rich to provide her security and everything she may ever need, but they just want a man with a plan. A good plan always goes a long way because it implies that you know what you want and you know how to take care of her. You don’t have to tell her in detail your five-year plan to achieve your goals in life, but you need to be someone who exudes confidence in your stride, personality or with the way you talk.
Listed above are only some of the common things that women look for from the men they socialize and get in a relationship with. To recap, they adore a man who has eyes only for them, someone who make them laugh and feel secure, and someone with a heroic streak in them. But remember that there is a no one-size-fits-all formula with women. You can’t possibly satisfy all her wants, but you can be the best guy of the lot by making sure that you’ve got the basics covered.
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