They say you’ll never fully know a person until you live with them, that is why even husbands and wives who have been dating out for years still find something surprising in each other after the wedding. But there are ways, however, that you get a glimpse of the kind of person someone is. There are the little things that actually reveal a lot about the big things.
And while you may know quite a lot of things about a woman on the first date, there are things that she may never show (especially the bad side of her) – maybe because your questions never led to revealing answers, there was not a chance to show such, or she was secretive about it. So if you don’t want to be in for one bad date after another, or worse, one too many heartbreaks all because you never knew she was someone you didn’t like at all, be more observant.
Signs to know that she’s bad news
Call me judgmental, call me whatever you want, but here are some signs that she’s actually bad news:
- If her photos on Facebook are a little too provocative. This is only excusable if that’s part of her job or something. But if she does it for fun, for the “fame”, and she’s doing it to get many likes as possible, she’s bad news. Now, before we get too overwhelmed, let’s define provocative. If she poses wearing skimpy shorts and skimpy outfits, but with a fairly simple caption, it’s not provocative. But if she’s wearing skimpy outfits with the camera focused on her huge behind, or there’s a little strip of cloth covering her nipples, coupled with a caption that could make men want to run to their bedrooms with socks and lotion, she’s definitely far from being good news.
- If all of her relationships are short term. If she jumps from one boyfriend to another, someone who doesn’t say no, what makes you think you’re going to be any different? She could be a fickle, or she gets bored with her men easily or she is not one to stay when things are not going her way. Whichever one it is, it won’t be something made for the long term.
- She sleeps all day and parties all night. This is only acceptable if and when she’s fresh out of college and having fun before grinding her behind making a living for herself. It’s not even about her partying all night, but if she lets her parents pay for every shot of tequila she drinks and every minute she spends in the club when she’s perfectly capable of finding a job, then clearly she has not pulled herself together and she’s likely a brat.
- If she gossips…a lot. Okay, not a few girls are guilty of spending a little time chitchatting over someone and getting their noses in someone else’s business. But if she spends a little too much time talking about someone else’s life – to you or to her friends – she’s not the best kind of girlfriend around; she’s likely to be a little shallow.
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